When I was in the process of leaving the Mormon Church I heard Emily Pearson speak at a conference in Portland, OR. She referenced a "shelf" in the back of her mind where her church leaders had told her to store all of the unanswered questions that would be answered in the "next life".
For those whose lives are slightly more challenging (in my case...being gay and Mormon), this shelf loads up fairly quickly until it collapses under the weight.
This blog is intended to be a gentle nudge that will not only help the shelf collapse, but provide you with the tools that you will need in order to make a meaningful transition to a life as a humanist.
Your first step as a humanist is to understand that life becomes much more meaningful when you embrace the fact that if this is all there is, then it is that much more important that you live your best life now, starting today! As a humanist, there is a greater sense of urgency to find your purpose and start working toward it!
By documenting my conversion from "Christianist" (an extremist Christian) to humanist, I hope to help you navigate through what your church brothers and sisters will see as your "loss of faith". Done correctly, you will avoid the pitfalls of "eat, drink and be merry" and instead work toward a life that will be as "purpose driven" as your former life of "self-denial-for-a-reward-in-Heaven" was.
I had lived for 44 years before celebrating mid-life by finally pursuing my passion for writing. I finished my first novel, but ended up forcing the ending. I set it aside and started a second novel, allowing the characters to evolve on their own. It became very autobiographical, and by the third chapter I realized what I was doing. I was writing about the life I should have lived, and before the book was finished I had written myself out of the closet. Today, I am a contemporary essayist. In the words of Phillip Lopate, an essay "...tracks a person's thoughts as he or she tries to work out some mental knot. ... An essay is a search to find out what one thinks about something. ... An essayist wears proudly the confusion of an independent soul trying to grope in isolation toward the truth." (In Search of the Centaur: The Essay-Film.)
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